Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Trust in Marriage

Hi loves, how's your week so far? Hope all is well. 

Anyway, since the issue of Vhong Navarro vs. Deniece Cornejo is still hot, I remembered something that happened sometime ago. 

So we all know that Deniece is claiming that Vhong attempted to rape her. Actually, she's now accusing Vhong that he raped her. 

In 2012, our marriage was shaken by an issue.  It's quite similar to this. 

I won't go into details because it's sensitive and I want to protect the people involved. 

A girl told me that she felt a little uncomfortable with my husband's actions. She said, my husband attempted to do something to her. 

At first, I wanted to believe her. But then, I tried to analyze her story and my husband's side. 

First point. She went to our house and asked if she can sleep there. She knew that I worked on a graveyard shift. If she felt awkward that night, she had a choice to leave the house, pero hindi. Dun pa rin siya natulog kahit alam niya na dalawa lang sila ng husband ko sa bahay nung gabing yun. 

Second point. After 2 days, bumalik ulit siya sa bahay namin ng madaling araw knowing na wala pa ako sa bahay ng ganung oras. Kung talagang natakot siya sa husband ko nung unang pumunta siya, bakit bumalik parin siya samen? 

Moral lesson? Wag mag-tiwala. Hindi lahat ng sinasabi ng tao sayo ay totoo. Magsiyasat muna at pakinggan ang kabilang panig. 

I almost believed her. It put our marriage on the verge. But I trust my husband more than anyone else in this world. 

What my husband learned? May babae pala na akala niya, lahat ng lalaki ay magnanasa sakanya. 

Mag-ingat. Lumayo sa temptasyon. Umiwas sa mga sitwasyon na malalagay ka sa alanganin. 

Up to now, I'm still thinking the reason why that girl did that to us. 

Naiinggit ba siya dahil masaya kameng mag-asawa at sila hindi? Gusto niya ba na masira ang pamilya namen dahil galing siya sa broken family? 

Gusto niya ba magtaksil ang asawa ko dahil pinagtaksilan siya ng asawa niya? I don't know but those are the the things running inside my head. 

This is one of the most sensitive topics that I am not ready to share to other people. In fact, ayoko ng pag-usapan namen ng asawa ko to. 

Why? That time, I hated him so much and I almost lose my trust in him. I would move heaven and earth to avoid feeling like that again. 

He hated the girl. Kung alam niyo lang ang galit niya. He even confronted her. Wag na wag lang daw magku-krus ang landas nila. 

I understand my husband. Nagalit siya sa kwento na ginawa ng babaeng ito na muntikan kong paniwalaan. Malinis ang record ng asawa ko pagdating sa issue ng loyalty and fidelity. 

Walang bahid ng pangangaliwa or panloloko at ayaw niya masira yun. Mas matatanggap pa daw niya kung maghihiwalay kame dahil sa mga kalokohan na talaga namang ginawa niya kesa sa bagay na hindi niya ginawa. 

It was easier to believe him because of his clean records. Compared to this girl who has a history of telling lies and making up stories. In fact, wala ng gustong maniwala sa kanya. I feel sorry for her. 

Thank God, nalagpasan namen ng asawa ko ang isang pagsubok na yumanig sa pag-sasama namen. 

I'm glad that our marriage is built on love and trust. 

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